Learn Together
Because no one taught us how to do this.
And the world needs people who know how to connect.
The Relationship Skills Membership
Real skills. Real practice. Real community — twice a month on Zoom with Kassandra Brown and Amy Whicker.
Kassandra brings thirty years of somatic depth, trauma-informed coaching, and hard-won lived experience. Amy brings a background in nondualistic tantra, experience design, and a deep fluency in love, sex, dating, and the full complexity of modern relating — all grounded in consent, curiosity, and genuine presence. They met in the fire of their own becoming.
Together they're teaching the skills nobody taught us: how to ask for what you need, how to hear a no without collapsing, how to stay present when things get hard, how to love without losing yourself. Attachment styles, parts work, consent, communication, the Wheel of Consent — applied to dating, family dinners, divorce, and everything in between.
One training call and one coaching call every month. One hour each.
Founding member rate: $35/month — available to the first 30 members. Regular rate: $45/month
Calls on the 1st and 2nd Wednesdays of the month at 6pm Mountain. Launching May 6, 2026.
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Workshop Intensives
Small groups. One day. One topic. One room of people willing to go somewhere real together.
These intimate workshops happen at Kassandra's home in Boulder. You can expect 8 to 20 people diving deep into relationship skills, somatic awareness, consent, communication, and the questions real people are actually asking.
Coming up: Consent in Dating
You've learned about consent in the cuddle community. Now let's take it into your actual dating life — how to ask for what you want, how to read and give clear signals, how to make the whole thing feel less like a minefield and more like a dance.
One day. Boulder. Spring 2026.
Early bird: $150 (regular rate $250)
Community Cuddles
Community Cuddles is a monthly gathering in Boulder and Arvada for people who want to practice connection in a space that's safe, consensual, and surprisingly fun. No experience necessary. No pressure to touch anyone. Come as you are.
Science and lived experience agree: consensual, caring touch calms our nervous systems, eases loneliness, and helps us heal. But most of us never learned how to ask for it — or how to say no without guilt. That's what we practice here.
Every gathering begins with a Welcome Circle — a grounding, consent, and boundaries workshop where we practice giving and receiving clear verbal yes and no responses. This is where the real magic starts, before anyone touches anyone. After that, open cuddle time begins. You may cuddle, sit quietly, or simply observe. All choices are valid. No one is ever required to touch anyone — ever.
Most people arrive a little anxious and leave feeling peaceful, joyful, and deeply connected.
Upcoming 2026 Boulder dates: April 12, May 10, June 7, July 12, Aug 9, Sept 13, Oct 11, Nov 8, Dec 13.
Not sure where to start?
I suggest you follow your intuition and curiosity. There's no wrong door. Some people find it easiest to start with Community Cuddles and see how it feels. Join the membership when you're ready to go deeper or if you live farther away. Come to a workshop when a topic calls to you.
You're the expert on you. What would you like to do?