May 6 - Request, Offer, Invitation aka "Do you wanna get pizza Saturday?"

May 6 Class. May 13, 2026 Coaching for those in membership

6-7pm. Zoom link sent after registration.

Do You Wanna Get Pizza Saturday? Sounds simple. It's not.

That question could mean at least three different things:

• I want pizza and I want company — will you join me?

• I'd be happy to go if you're hungry

• I really just want to spend time with you

Most of us have been asking questions like this our whole lives without knowing which one we mean. And the people we're asking don't know either. So we guess. We say yes when we mean maybe. We say sure when we mean please don't make me. We say whatever you want when we actually have a preference but it feels safer not to say so.

And then we wonder why relationships feel so exhausting.

This class is about something simple and kind of radical: Knowing what you actually want — and being able to say it. And hearing what someone else actually wants, instead of having to guess.

You'll learn the difference between a Request, an Offer, an Invitation, and a Demand — four things we mix up constantly — and practice making each one clearly with other people like you who are also just trying to get better at this.

No need to have it all together or get it right. We'll learn together then practice in a space that's designed to feel safe enough to actually try.

What you'll walk away with: One skill that makes your relationships — with friends, partners, family— feel less like a minefield and more like something you can actually enjoy.

When: Wednesday May 6, 6pm MT on Zoom

Investment: $27 Eventbrite Ticket OR Join the full Membership for $35 a month

Who this is for: Anyone who's tired of relationships feeling harder than they should and wants a community to keep getting better with.

This class is the first offering of the Relationship Skills Membership, a monthly community for people who want to keep getting better at the most important thing. Attendees will have the option to learn more about joining.

June 3 - Understanding and Using Attachment Styles aka "It's not you. It's your attachment system."

May 3 Class. June 10, 2026 Coaching for those in membership and EEFT including guest Spencer Jacobson from Dance Meets Tantra

6-7pm. Zoom link sent after registration.

Do you keep ending up in the same dynamic?

You might be the person who can't seem to get close enough. Or the one who needs space. You've been in the relationship that felt so promising until suddenly it didn't. Or the pattern you swore you'd never repeat — and then repeated.

It's not because you're broken. It's not because you pick badly. And it's not because love is supposed to be this hard.

It's because you learned something early about whether help would come when you needed it. Whether people could be trusted to show up. Whether getting close was safe or whether it cost too much.

You learned it so young and so thoroughly that it just feels like you. Like your personality. Like the way you are in relationships.

It isn't. It's a pattern. And patterns can change.

In this class you'll learn:

The four attachment patterns or styles — Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Disorganized — and how to recognize them in yourself and the people you're close to.

That you're not one style. You're a blend that shifts depending on who you're with and what's been triggered. Which means you're not stuck.

That secure attachment is learnable. You don't have to have had it from the beginning to have it now. Psychologists call it earned secure and it's exactly what it sounds like — something you can build, in real relationships, starting now.

What you'll actually do:

This isn't just a lecture. You'll have time to locate yourself in the material, identify a real moment from your own life, and practice with others in small groups — people who are also just trying to figure out why relationships feel the way they do.

No performance required. No having it all together. Just honest reflection in a space designed to feel safe enough to actually try.

When: Wednesday, June 3, 6pm MT on Zoom

Investment: $27 Eventbrite Ticket OR Join the full Membership for $35 a month

Who this is for: Anyone who has ever wondered why they keep ending up in the same relationship dynamics and suspects it doesn't have to stay that way.

This class is part of the Relationship Skills Membership, a monthly community for people who want to keep getting better at the most important thing. Attendees will have the option to learn more about joining.

The Relationship Skills Membership

Real skills. Real practice. Real community — twice a month on Zoom with Kassandra Brown and Amy Whicker.

Kassandra brings thirty years of somatic depth, trauma-informed coaching, and hard-won lived experience. Amy brings a background in experience design, Authentic Relating, and conscious consent — grounded in her own journey with perfectionism, people-pleasing, and late-diagnosed neurodivergence. Her facilitation is playful, interactive, and genuinely non-hierarchical. They met in the fire of their own becoming. What they're building together is richer than anything either would have made alone.

Together they're teaching the skills nobody taught us: how to ask for what you need, how to hear a no without collapsing, how to stay present when things get hard, how to love without losing yourself. Attachment styles, parts work, communication, the Wheel of Consent — applied to dating, family dinners, divorce, and everything in between.

One training call and one coaching call every month. One hour each.

Founding member rate: $35/month — available to the first 30 members. Regular rate: $45/month

Calls on the 1st and 2nd Wednesdays of the month at 6pm Mountain. Launching May 6, 2026.

Special Founding Member Rate $35/month

Regular price $45/month